RSS Feed

“A” for Enthusiasm

Posted on

According to  an article on non-verbal communication, only 7% of communication is done through spoken words. That’s not great news for a language teacher.

55% occurs through body language. No wonder a firm handshake and eye contact are so important!

The remaining 38% of communication happens through the tone of your voice.

Now, I wonder if this is true for all languages, or just English. In German, it seems like people put more weight on the words themselves than on tone. If you say ‘That’s OK” in German, people nod and leave you alone. If you say “That’s OK” in English, we wonder, “Are you sure?? What’s wrong? Is it REALLY ok? It didn’t SOUND ok…”

My husband is an excellent cook, and loves trying out new recipes. A while ago he made a salad, and I am not the biggest salad eater, but this was divine. I could have eaten it all day. I told him it was the best salad I’d ever had.

Later that evening, he was expressing doubts about the meal:

“You didn’t like my salad very much.”

“What are you talking about?!”

“All you said was, ‘It’s the best salad I’ve ever had.’ But from my American wife, I expect, “IT IS THE BESSSTTTT SAALLADDD EEEVVEEEERRRRR!”

He used to tease me about my American enthusiasm (and get me in a room with my American friends, you will drown in exclamation marks…)  but I suppose he’s come to get used to it. For me, a simple, monotone “I like it” basically means it’s awful. There MUST be some emphasis on the “like” or even “love” to show any degree of preference. As far as I know, “Ich mag es” in German means you like it, no matter how you say it. (Native speakers, correct me if I’m wrong!)

So for every hour of English vocabulary I teach, should I be teaching 5 hours of American enthusiasm? (Or lack thereof – what if something is:                    THE.         WOOOOOORRRRRSSSTTTTTT?) How important is tone of voice when learning or teaching a new language?

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: